Remember The Repression?
In his article, Fetishism, Sigmund Freud discusses the origin of sexual fetishes. As per his psychoanalytic discipline, he relates sexual fetishes to the moment a man realizes that his mother does not, in fact, have a penis. This instills the fear of the possibility of castration within the man, and after that moment of realization, a fetish is created to substitute the mother’s lack of penis. Freud refers to this fear as the “castration complex,” and discusses a fetishist’s need to ”disavow” this fear while also embracing it by creating a fetish. He prefers this dialectic over the idea of total ”scotomization,” which he uses to mean the complete obliteration of a traumatizing memory, such as the moment when a man realizes he, just like his mother, is in danger of not having a penis (842). While Freud’s argument is definitely interesting enough, a clear argument arises: what about the female fetishist? This piece is clearly specific to its time period and does not account for a more global view on the sexes. I do find much merit in his argument, however, that humans do not merely cross out significant memories in their life. Rather, they create substitution modes of obsession to channel these memories in easier-to-digest fashions.
Freud’s basis for his argument lies in his belief that a man cannot handle the idea of potential castration, and therefore he lives traumatized by the moment he realizes that his mother does not have a penis. Freud states, “When now I announce that the fetish is a substitute for the penis… The fetish is precisely designed to preserve it from extinction…” (842). Here Freud points out that a fetish is a substitute for a man’s mother’s lost penis, and it is not meant to completely forget about the whole memory. This statement ties into his proceeding argument that the fetish is not meant to “scotomize,” or obliterate the memory of a man’s finding out about his mother’s lack of a penis (842). Rather it is meant to crystalize this memory while making it easier to handle. This new interest in the fetish makes the weight of the fear of castration easier to endure by creating what Freud calls a “token of triumph” over this fear (843). Freud emphasizes this natural and dialectical human tendency to both repress and revere a traumatizing memory when he brings in the story of a patient who was dealing with the death of his father. In coping, he vacillated between the notions that his father was still alive but also that he was his father’s successor (844). Freud likens this to a fetishist, where he writes, “A fetish of this sort, doubly derived from contrary ideas, is of course especially durable… To point out that he reveres his fetish is not the whole story; in many cases he treats it in away which is obviously equivalent to representation of castration” (845). Freud refers to this as a “divided attitude” which helps a fetishist cope with his ultimate fear of losing his manhood. He cannot entirely deny the existence of this fear, which would be equivalent to simple repression. Rather, he can suppress it while still finding moments to hail it in recognition.
I find the base argument of this article to be discredited by the fact that Freud entirely ignored an entire gender in describing the origin of fetishes. It is not a surprise, however, as in his time women were not allowed to be as sexually overt as they are in modern times. Therefore, most attention to sexual “abnormalities” would be paid to males because they were allowed to more openly express themselves in sexual ways. What I do pay heed to, however, is the overall concept of humans crystalizing traumatizing memories through more meaningful ways that allow them to conquer the memory itself. There definitely does exist a divided attitude amongst all of us when dealing with trauma, in that repressing it entirely does not work, rather we must memorialize it as well to achieve true triumph.


