We Don’t Need to Label Everything
In Gender Trouble, Judith Butler refers to how sex and gender have been a major topic within politics. Someone who was by chance born with one set of reproductive organs versus another has had their entire ideology shaped by what it means to be of that sex. However, there is a difference between “the body,” which has traditionally influenced our views on gender, and what is within us that shapes who we are.
Butler alludes to Foucault’s The History of Sexuality, in how society has managed to control the discourse, and in turn, public views of controlling sexuality. Traditional views of sexuality include some form of heteronormative vaginal/penile intercourse between a (preferably married) man and woman. This is a clear way to define two types of bodies: the male and female. However, homosexuality throws a wrench into this neat construction of gender, not to mention transgender individuals, or Butler’s example, those who dress in drag. Suddenly, these other sexual practices “that open surfaces and orifices to erotic signification or close down others effectively reinscribe the boundaries of the body along new cultural lines” (2545). No longer does inhabiting one type of body restrict one to specific sexual acts, and therefore other behavior as well.
As interference declines within the realm of what constitutes proper exchanges between the sexes, “the very boundaries that determine what it is to be a body at all” decline as well (2545). For so long, many of us have internalized what it means to be a “girl” or “boy” since childhood. As a child, I was told by my mother that it is more fun to be a girl. We get to dress up, wear makeup and high heels, and partake in generally more frivolous activities while men do the work. While I’ll admit that I do enjoy designer shoes, I have departed from my family norm by providing for myself (I’m the first woman in my family to have lived in their own home/apartment outside of a father or husband), with the goal of pursuing a master’s degree next year instead of a wedding (my mom likes to mention she was married and pregnant at my age). Both aspects are considered masculine traits in my family, and while not discouraged, I’m often looked upon as an oddity in my family (can’t wait for Thanksgiving next week!).
Butler takes this idea further when referencing Foucault again later in the essay. He describes how the essence of one’s soul is located somewhere within the body, not outwardly displayed on it. It is invisible, a “signifying lack” (2548). Desire is not a consequence of gender. A girl wanting a Barbie doll for their birthday may, of course, want one out of true desire, but more likely, from an internalized idea of what it means to be a girl formed by gender ideology. Butler points out that it is through repetitive acts conforming our gender that creates what we see as our gender identity. However, she also make a key distinction between expressive and performative acts. She encourages the radical idea of expression, and that by allowing the outward expression of our true selves, we will not be forced to conform to gender.

