You married your Mother?
The Oedipus complex is one of the most interesting aspects of Freud’s interpretations. To put it into a simple definition, a child is in love with their opposite gendered parent and views the same gender parent as a rival for their affection. For example, if a mother has a baby, that baby generally relies on the mother to live and for love. The father is now seen as competition because the baby soon realizes that the mother is an “object” per say, of the fathers. This causes the baby to feel hatred, anxiety, separation and even fear towards the father. In the legend of Oedipus Rex, it is interpreted as the doomed prophecy of Oedipus who unknowingly kills his father and ends up marrying his mother. The legend of Oedipus moves audiences because we all could have experienced this. As Freud states, “While the poet, as he unravels the past, brings to light the guilt of Oedipus, he is at the same time compelling us to recognize our inner minds, in which those same impulses, though suppressed, are still to be found” (Freud 921). That impulse will always be there whether we think it is or not, there is no denying it. This is why no other modern day playwrights can get the same reaction as the legend of Oedipus can, because they don’t dive as far into the subconscious as Oedipus’s demise does. Now, speaking of other plays in which the narrative was portrayed to a similar effect, the tragedy of Hamlet by Shakespeare. Freud discusses the differences of these two stories of misfortune. First, Hamlet’s complex is repressed. The readers only see the “hesitation” of Hamlet when trying to carry out his act of revenge and are never directly told that this was why he was having the hesitations. Everything he did was essentially for his mother and her love but with this Hamlet also has a big ego and is fully aware of his prophecy yet grapples with the fact that he wants to do it. His father’s ghost asking him to avenge him by killing his killer makes Hamlet realize something about himself. Freud interprets, “Hamlet is able to do anything except take vengeance on the man who did away with his father and took that father’s place with his mother, the man who shows him the repressive wishes of his own childhood realized. Thus the loathing which should drive him on to revenge us replaced by self-reproaches, by scruples of conscience, to which remind him that he himself is literally no better than the sinner whom is to punish” (Freud 923). The act of hesitation is because of his Oedipus complex, his father is finally out of the picture. So maybe take a deeper look into your subconscious and a seat onto Freud’s couch, if someone ever says, “you married your mother”.

