It’s Not the Phone or Phone Call, It’s You
Men used to court women for weeks and months at a time before asking her out on a date. Nowadays, people can swipe right across your screen on Tinder and the app will match a couple up. With technology advancing as fast as it has in the past several decades, things are bound to change. These days, you can order pizza, listen to music, chat with your friend, read a book, and even go shopping without getting out of bed. Technology has completely changed the way we live our lives compared to how it was decades ago. In Ian Bogost’s “Don’t Hate the Phone Call, Hate the Phone,” he talks specifically about how the phones and phone calls have changed since landlines were popular.
Bogost begins by explaining that Millennials not only have a distaste for phone calls, some actually have a kind of telephoniphobia. With chat apps like iMessage, WhatsApp, and texting, interacting with people have changed to less personal means of communication. Bogost states, “When asked, people with a distaste for phone calls argue that they are presumptuous and intrusive, especially given alternative methods of contact that don’t make unbidden demands for someone’s undivided attention.” I agree with what people stated in regards to phone calls. The way technology has shaped the way we interact, leaves phone-to-ear conversations obsolete. We use our cell phones in our everyday lives. We spend most of our daily lives on the go and we use our cell phones whenever we have a small break, whether it is ordering coffee, riding the train, or while running errands. An incoming phone call can be intrusive or presumptuous if you’re in the middle of a meeting or in class. As technology advances, the way we do things become easier and quicker but we have also become busier because we are able to tend to more obligations leaving us little time to spend talking over the phone and directing us towards texting.
Cell phones nowadays are designed in a way where it isn’t easy to talk live on the cellphone as compared to landlines in the 20th century. Bogost mentions, “On the infrastructural level, mobile phones operate on cellular networks, which route calls between between transceivers distributed across a service area. These networks are wireless, obviously, which means that signal strength, traffic, and interference can make calls difficult or impossible.” Cellular networks are unreliable, calls get dropped, the audio is subpar, and with signal loss as well, telephoning through a cell phone is untrustworthy and unpredictable, therefore, unlikely to initiate a phone call.
The Western Electric model 500 was a popular phone in the 20th century. The phone was designed to conform to the ergonomics of listening and speaking. It had a solid feel yet not too heavy to hold it for long periods of time. There were many ways to hold it, whether you grasp it at its center, cradle at the rounded mouthpiece, or wedged between the ear and shoulder. It was a tool made for the sole purpose of telephoning. As technology advanced, the phone’s shape begin to change and shrink until it is a flat rectangular piece we’re used to today. The tiny microphones and speakers are designed to be hidden inside the piece making sound difficult to be projected in and out of the device. Bogost finally states, “Telephone calls haven’t declined because we have become anxious or lazy. They’ve fallen out of favor because using the telephone feels mechanically ungainly as much as socially so.” I wholeheartedly agree with this. Cell phones are typically used for almost everything but phoning. Its whole design is made to make phone calls less convenient. The device is constructed to do more than that, it is designed to match the era we live in; it is designed to match our fast paced, efficient, and bustling lives.
Telephoning is a means to interact with another person on a more intimate level than texting or using a chat app. The telephone or landline was invented as a tool to communicate with another person, just as a cell phone is. Many people complain, with technology now, texting and chat apps have driven us to be more cold and distant in comparison to calling someone but ultimately, we forget that though calling may be more personable, it does not replace face-to-face interaction. These tools, both landlines and cellphones were created to make socializing and interacting quicker but both at a cost of losing intimacy. Before the invention of these devices, we would rendezvous with a friend for lunch to talk about each other’s’ lives. Technology has replaced this in the 20th century with landlines, and now with cell phones. It’s not the phone call we should hate, or the phone. Technology isn’t the true culprit of making us less intimate, it’s a lack of effort in each person to make it more personal. It’s the lack of time we make to fit another person into our busy, bustling lives.

