Forming Egos
In the Mirror Stage as Formative, Lacan believes that during our infant stage. We shape our own images based on a mirror and how we perceive ourselves as. What Lacan dives into is a belief I strongly believe. Staring myself in a mirror can shape my mood for the day. When I see myself looking fine and fresh, my personality is more expressive and courageous.
Even when I was a child, watching powerful heroes in movies, if I look in the mirror, I can picture myself wanting to be that person. Lacan mentions “The fact is that the total form of the body by which the subject anticipates in a mirage the maturation of his power is given to him only as Gestalt, that is to say, in an exteriority in which this form is certain more constituent than constituted”(1165).
My interpretation is that we illude ourselves into being that person or wanting to be that person. A perfect example is a child wanting to believe that he/she has absolute power and can demand their parents for their desires. Many infants when they begin to realize their surroundings, begin to experience many things that satisfy their wants/needs. As they begin to take in, they want more and more. Candy, toys, and other wants. They begin to shape this dominant attitude/personality and begin to believe that their world revolves around them.
Lacan perfectly describes this, “The mirror stage is a drama whose internal thrust is precipitated from insufficiency to anticipation – and which manufactures for the subject, caught up in the lure of spatial identification”(1166). Our self-images are formed based on what we’re lacking and we end up forming these attitudes based on our ego.
Our ego plays a major role in our self-made images. We get defensive about things that manage to break through our ego and we begin to act more cautious. Especially when children feel insulted at such a young age, they begin to become more distant and lean away from their parents, siblings, and friends. As I’ve witnessed an “ex-friend”, when a harmless joke was made (even though it had nothing to do with him) he would act quietly and not say much. This is a normal reaction as if everyone knew what he was hiding even though we didn’t. It’s as if he was preparing to attack when an intruder has breached through his defenses.
Lacan presents us with, “Similarly, on the mental plane, we find realized the structures of fortified works, the metaphor of which arises spontaneously, as if issuing from the symptoms themselves, to designate the mechanism of obsessional neurosis – inversion, isolation, reduplication, cancellation and displacement” (1167).
Lacan’s belief regarding the self-made images we based on in a mirror has impacted the way we see and begin to see ourselves. I’ve realized how we became what we are today and where did it all originate. Or at least one of the reasons that could’ve influenced us to become what we are and why do we behave in certain ways.



